Looking at the failed relationships that my girlfriends had recently, I cannot help but feel insecure.
We used to think only good-looking guys have the capability of straying. Now, even the most down-to-earth-looking guys can be the most experienced Casanovas and liars. What is this world coming to? Girls (you know who you are), don't bother to look for cuties anymore. Instead, get a rich man. If you are ever cheated or forsaken by one of those bastards *touchwood*, you may be dug emotionally but your full pockets might be of some consolation.
If a boyfriend cheats, the most common advice you will hear from the friends is, “Bastard! Forget about him! Find a better one!”
If a boyfriend cheats and wants to reconcile, it will be, “Forget about giving him a chance! Dog will always eat shit. You will just give him another chance to cheat on you.”
Easy said. But when it comes to matters of the heart, it is not as easy as said.
If such a scenario ever befalls on me, I think I will give him another chance. Call me a risk-taker. Or a fool.
Perhaps he is relenting as he is too egoistic to see me with a new guy. Or he is not used to not having me around. Maybe he feels that I am still better than that other girl. Or perhaps he really loves me and is willing to change for the better.
There are a lot of possibilities.
However, to give up a relationship that has lasted for so long seems just impossible. Although I know there is a chance that the reconciliation may be fruitless eventually, I am still not willing to forsake the possibility that there may be a happy ending to this relationship. If I really love him and I can see that he still loves me and is really sincere about changing and committing, I guess I should give him or us another chance. Be it that he cheats on me again, at least I tried and I can really let go and move on for I am sure that he cannot be trusted anymore.
But will every man stray? To marry a man who will never let you face such situations is a wish every girl hopes for. But is there really such a man?
Is monogamy really non-existent in relationships? Doesn’t love grow fonder with time? Or a relationship simply needs a third party to add thrill and challenge to it? A relationship that has braved through adultery will turn out to be a stronger one?
To quote Sicong, “Love is a gamble.”
I guess I am a hard-core gambler when it comes to relationships.
I took the gamble by accepting Dear. And it is paying off now.
But will my bet be a sure win?”
I guess time will tell. With proper handling and commitment, it will eventually be one.
I hope.
*cross fingers*
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